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Do Phone Sex And ‘Talking Dirty’ Really Matter In Relationships?

Communication is the key to saving relationships and marriages

It however, remains a point for arguments whether keeping a strong bond between couples include ‘talking dirty’ and engaging in ‘phone sex.’

Be that as it may, there’s no doubt that getting kinky in or out of the bedroom can spice up boring marriages and improve the quality of relationships.

Phone sex and dirty talks are an indispensable part of any marriage although some couples use it better than others.

People have varied opinions on this, especially from the perspective of long-distance relationships which depend greatly depend on technology to survive.

 

It is true that nothing can be better than the real thing, so we’d be wrong to conclude that phones play a major role in bridging the gap between couples.

I’m not kidding. Most sexually active couples who are separated by distance, always find other ways of getting off the ever-increasing desire for sex. This may include watching porn, giving ears to dirty talks, and somehow jerking off if the time is right.

Sadly, no woman will ever conceive through these means, and this brings to light the question of how effective and proven these quirky acts help to save relationships.

No matter how dirty talks and telephone sex assist in suppressing one’s hunger for sex, maintain their sanity, and encourage chastity, listening to what some women think about this will bring an unexpected shock to your spines.

You’d admit that “we need to talk” is one of the most common sentences in marriage.

Seriously, most partners love it when they talk without saying words, and at some other times, saying “sweet nonsense” works for many.

Knowing the right words to say is a skill lacking in most men but which surprisingly earns a woman’s respect in most cases. This is why we love it when they break the patriarchy.

Amanda Chatel of Your Tango revealed some confessions from nine women who were interviewed about phone sex and dirty talks.

“Text was invented for a reason, and I’m pretty sure this is one of those reasons: sexting,” said one out of the total nine women who all had different views on the subject.

“I feel like it would be just awkward to have phone sex with my husband. It’s not something we’ve ever done and to start doing it after three years would be weird. Besides, he can’t even sext properly,” one of them confessed to the interviewer.

 

“I love to call my boyfriend when he’s at work and immediately start talking dirty to him, knowing that all he can do is listen and not respond. It’s hot,” said a lady.

One of all those women who took part in the survey confessed to masturbating over the phone with her partner while they were college students.

Surprised? Technology is not just a necessary evil, it’s meant to serve everyone.

 

“We started having phone sex when we went to different schools in college, as a way to masturbate together,” she started. “But now we still do it occasionally for fun, because it’s hot to hear his voice when he has an orgasm — at the office, out of town for work, or just for the hell of it.”

 

Interestingly, there are some strong-willed women who’d rather starve until daddy comes home.

 

“I’m not into it,” said another woman. “I don’t like to verbally express myself. I like to physically express myself. Sh*t, I’m a dancer; I use my body not my words.”

A few secrets of happily married couples include: trusting each other without doubts or judgement, learning the ropes together –through good and bad times, showing respect, finding happiness in little things, being honest in every meaning of the word, and learning to embrace each other’s differences.

Couples may argue at times, but fighting fairly makes everyone a winner.

How about having fun doing nothing? This is where laughter comes in as a healing therapy. It mends broken hearts and rids the heart of some sick and destructive thoughts.

*We would love to know your opinion on phone sex and dirty talks.

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