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At times women accuse men for being ‘heartless, loveless, and stony.’

Sadly, many men in this ‘loveless’ category truly love their women but only lack means to express that affection or love.

Men are creatures of love naturally hence God even said “husband love your wives”. In history we record men dying for love since its their nature to give in love but at times we fail to show that love. Here are some ways you can show her love:

Presence

Dear men, be present in your woman’s life if you truly loves her. Be present in her life. Show up in times of need and pain, even in times of joy and happiness. The void you create in good or bad times raises concern of care and support. Just be present. Be available always.

Passion

If you trully love your woman then show some passion, not mere interest in her as a friend, lover, or wife. Be passionate about her life progress; career, health, dreams and more in your conversations. Physical affection isn’t passion. Passion simply entails showing keen interest in everything about her at all times. Stop behaving like you are forced to he with her.

Publicity

If you want to show how much you love your women then embrace her publicly, let your world see you post her pics on Facebook; set them as status; use her as screen saver; walk with her in open public spaces. Women feel more appreciated when they are not hidden.

Partnership;

If you want her to see your love then allow her to be your partner. Create an inter-dependent relationship with her. Even if you know you can do some things alone and without her permission, you should still ask for her support/consent/approval and allow her shape your world a bit. She’ll be forever grateful for that love, respect, and privilege. Allow her to choose some clothes for you; decide your life to an extent; determine this and that. Give her that power in your life to make her feel useful and loved.

Privacy;

Every man loves his privacy so much, but that privacy destroys intimacy with women. It’s best for you to pen your world a little bit for her to see into it. Let her know your source of income; your past life; your nicknames; your life before her; your this and that few you call private.

Promotion

Any man who claims to love any woman must dare to promote her to a level of a wife or even certain amount of commitment towards her. Your love cannot be seen by your woman if you still have her at the bottom of your life like footnote reference in a paragraph. If you love it put a ring on it (I will write more on it).

Power

At times women fight for power that they fight for anything. Women feel less loved especially when they have no power in the relationship. Give her power to decide some things in your life. It’s clear that your love can be hidden and held back by power struggle. Give your woman some power to see how much you love and trust her with that power.

Pampering

One of the things men fail to keep up with is the idea of pampering their women. Women see no love when they are not given things they love and enjoy for their pleasure. Women can be pampered differently depending on their preferences according to their love language (5 Love Languages by Dr Gary Chapman). Find a way to pamper your woman. Get to know how to spoil her rotten.

Prayer

Our love has to be based on activity beyond physical more. Our spiritual journey has to build and grow our love. Men must introduce and facilitate his woman to his spiritual journey. Our women feel less loved because all they see is the physical molecule impediment of love which can be both ways than inner spiritual intimacy that creates companionship in life.

#Remember: Love shows in a mysterious ways and it conquers everything. But Love defined by Saint Paul that is patient, kind, and Not Jealous..So, to all Husbands, let’s do our very best to love our Wives as we fulfill Gods remarkable admonition: ‘Husbands, love your wives.’.God bless us all