TAKE A BOW: When It Doesn’t Feel Like Love Anymore

What are some signs that your partner may not love you anymore and may be seeking affection and attention from someone else?

When your partner no longer loves you, their actions will tell. Actions never lie. Pay attention to it. It doesn’t matter what your partner says, if they do this:

1. Always busy now. No matter how busy a person gets (coming from a very busy person) they always have time for what they love. If they’ve been doing this job, and they had time to chase you and stuff, why is it now that they’re suddenly too busy for you?
2. Hardly keeps a conversation with you. It might be physical or over the phone. You notice that their calls or chats are so brief and dry. And you are the one always prolonging the conversation.
3. It now feels like you’re chasing them.
4. You’re questioning the love you guys now share.
5. They get angry and irritated at every little thing you do. It’s almost as if they’re purposely trying to start a fight.
6. When you fight, they give you the silent treatment. You’re now the one always trying to make amends.
7. They don’t support you: financially, morally or otherwise.
8. They don’t plan the future with you and avoids using “us.”
9. They find every excuse not to spend quality time with you. When they do, it’s filled with sex, silence and they’re always on their phone.
10. The relationship no longer makes you happy.
11. Someone who always wanted to see you, talk with you and be with you, now suddenly want ‘space’ from you to fix something they never tell you about.

When the negatives overshadow your relationship, then it’s time to take a bow. It’s not a compulsory thing. In fact, that’s the purpose of a relationship: to see if you’re compatible enough to spend for the long haul.

It’s hard to let go. But, if you find yourself here, start focusing more on yourself and bettering yourself. That’s the only choice you have. That’s because it is usually the beginning of the end. By loving yourself even more, you get to withstand the pain of the inevitable and attract someone better in the future.

All the best.