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  • Comedian and actor Justice Nuagbe, popularly known as Ushbebe, has called for national prayers for music legend 2Face, claiming there is more to his relationship with his new partner, Natasha Osawaru, than meets the eye. He particularly frowned at how the music icon follows the Edo State lawmaker around like a “schoolboy.” Insisting that there…

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  • What makes people feel safe in relationships?

    The Characteristics that Make People Feel Safe in a Relationship vary and may change over time. Generally, these characteristics fall under the following categories: Physical Your partner doesn’t hit you, hold you down or use their body to intimidate you. You don’t expect a physical altercation and you don’t flinch when they reach towards you.…

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  • Can Past Betrayal or Abandonment Impact Relationship Safety?

    Part of the trauma of both betrayal and abandonment is that they destroy any sense of safety. And those effects are lasting, even following you into a new relationship. This is especially true if you felt safe and secure until the moment you realized that the firm ground was instead an illusion crafted to keep…

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  • The Link Between Relationship Safety and Anxiety or Insecurity

    Our primary relationships often set the tone for the rest of our experiences. We expect to be able to come home and relax our guard, to be authentic without the risk of excess judgement or the fear of being taken advantage of. To be our best, we need our relationships to be our stable ground…

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  • Divorced? Here’s what you should know before dating

    Are you dating after divorce? Here are some common pitfalls to be aware of – I received a message the other day from a woman who was recently divorced after fifteen years of marriage. But that’s not why she was reaching out. She was instead asking for help dealing with the utter devastation she was feeling…

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  • CODEPENDENCY: How to deal with avoidance in relationships

    Avoidance is a common coping strategy used in codependency to escape or distract from difficult thoughts, feelings, and situations. This avoidance can take various forms and often serves as a way to temporarily numb or suppress emotional discomfort. Here are some ways in which avoidance may manifest in codependency: Addiction Codependents may use substances such…

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  • Effective Tips on Ending Relationship with Someone You Love

    Deciding to end a relationship with someone you care for is only the first step. Going through with the breakup and sticking to your decision afterward can still be challenging. Breakups are difficult. Even if you’re on the same page about breaking up, it will probably still be pretty painful. Prepare yourself for this mentally. Here…

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  • CHEATERS: What you should know when partners deny cheating in relationships

    Something’s up. Maybe you stumbled across an inappropriate text or perhaps there’s just a different energy in the air. Either way, your suspicions are growing, eating at you as your imagination begins to shift into overdrive. Summoning your courage as you straddle the line between wanting to know and wanting to believe that everything is…

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  • How to Keep Intimacy Alive in Long-distance Relationships

    Maintaining intimacy in a long-distance relationship is often considered one of the most challenging aspects. Intimacy fosters deep emotional bonds, strengthens trust, and counteracts the impact of distance by providing a sense of closeness (Arditti & Kauffman, 2004). Therefore, it plays a crucial role in sustaining passion, promoting understanding, and offering emotional support during challenging…

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  • Why some lovers move on quickly after breakup

    Article Written by an anonymous contributor. My ex-husband certainly wasted no time. He didn’t even bother filing for divorce before he married his second (I’m assuming here; there could have been others) wife. Among all of the myriad thoughts that crashed around my mind in the aftermath of the discovery, one kept popping back up…

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  • How to Build Unwavering Trust in Relationships

    In long-distance relationships, trust becomes the bedrock upon which the connection thrives.  The physical separation inherent in such relationships can amplify insecurities, making trust the foundation that anchors the connection. Trust acts as a stabilizing force, reducing uncertainties and fostering emotional security (Sawai,Sawai, Masdin & Aziz, 2023).  Therefore, unwavering trust is essential for navigating challenges, preventing…

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  • Romeo Beckham confirms split with Mia Regan

    Footballer Romeo Beckham has announced he has split from his girlfriend Mia Regan after five years together. The 21-year-old son of former England football captain David Beckham and fashion designer Victoria Beckham had been dating the model since 2019. After speculation circulated online, Romeo confirmed they had gone their separate ways in a post to…

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  • Best Sleeping Habits for Couples in Love

    17 BEST SLEEPING HABITS FOR MARRIED COUPLES Remember: If you do this as a Habit, I am sure you will be the one happy couple in the world. So, let’s do this in our relationship …God bless us all

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  • CODEPENDENCY: What are control patterns in relationships?

    Codependents often have a strong need to control not only themselves but also the people and situations around them. This need for control can stem from their struggles with low self-esteem, fear of rejection, and difficulty being assertive. While it’s natural for everyone to desire some degree of control over their environment, in codependency, this…

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  • England and Man City player apologizes to wife for fathering a second child with model

    England and Manchester City star Kyle Walker has apologised to his wife after fathering a second child with another woman. The 33-year-old defender said he had made “idiot choices” and needed to “own up to my mistakes”. “What I’ve done is horrible and I take full responsibility,” he told The Sun newspaper. “The only person…

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  • How to Make Reunions Memorable in Long-distance Relationships

    Emma and Ling, separated by living in different cities, made their reunions memorable by adding personal touches. Ling surprised Emma with a carefully planned day exploring places significant to their relationship. They took photos at each location, created a visual timeline of their journey, and recorded video messages expressing their feelings and shared reflections.  They…

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