Nobody wants heartaches from “blind” love these days but—thanks to astrologers—we can twist fate through zodiac sign reading and love compatibility tests because our dates of birth provide reliable clues on relationships, lifestyles, habits, business and luck, among others.

Have you dated a jealous, violent or possessive lover? You may have sneakily glanced through your partner’s text messages, wallet and safe boxes, looking for evidence to prove your suspicions. You may have even stalked your loved ones on Facebook. Then what? Right or wrong, these are some of the traits possessed by jealous partners, and if you find yourself guilty of these relationship-killing pranks, be assured that you’re not alone.

In fact, 9 out of 10 times, jealousy between lovers stems from the fear of being cheated. And the reality of irreplaceability—without doubts—leads to obsession and loss of confidence, which often disrupt one’s mental balance to the point of unnecessary confrontations or violence.

However, knowing your new zodiac sign (dates have changed from the old calendar) and matching it with your partner’s, is the first step to finding lasting love.

For instance, Scorpio and Virgo are considered the most jealous zodiac signs, especially when they’re wrongly matched with others. Further, Water Zodiac signs (Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces) are known for jealousy and they’re prone to sudden acts of doubt and suspicion in relationships.

However, Cancer and Scorpio are usually secretive introverts with signs of emotional insecurity. They would rather pretend not be jealous in order to conceal their negative emotion. That said, astrologers advise carefulness from potential lovers. Communication is thus crucial in relationships with Cancer and Scorpio. Yet, when Water Zodiac signs fall in love with each other, they enjoy stability and emotional security. A look at Pisces man and Aquarius woman explains this better.

Pisces are also jealous but compassionate—with a greater chance of forgiving unfaithfulness in relationships than Cancer and Scorpio. In most cases, Pisces prefer to blame themselves for their partners’ shortcomings. Pisces are compatible with other water signs and their relationships with Aquarius (one of the Air Zodiac Signs) offer an unusual bond filled with burning passion, true love, understanding and unbreakable closeness. This is more so because air signs find jealousy a waste of time but would rather worry about their intellect and life problems than romantic relationships. On the other hand, the Aquarius woman is unique, relatively sociable, and possess a stimulating personality that makes them likeable. With a progressive spirit and ideas over emotions, she is always focused on the greater good. Her love for intelligent people is striking. She is a brilliant, visionary change-driver who won’t stop at anything until the desired transformation is achieved, even if it requires seeking support through “unfair practices”.

Aquarius hate jealousy from their partners; such arguments or accusations are a turn-off and, where unavoidable, would choose neither to offer explanations nor ask for understanding. They brim with great ideas, have fun conversations, but always crave for freedom in relationships. Aquarius are good listeners and always willing to lend help. However, most Aquarius women feel cramped when people pose threats to their living space because they have a detached characteristic that stops them from getting too close or free with friends and family. Lack of intimacy can be frustrating for her.

How to love Aquarius Women

Falling in love isn’t always easy for an Aquarius woman but when she finds that special someone, she never gives up her feelings as long as she is unrestricted and allowed to be herself. She invests energy in long-distance relationships and enjoys exchange of texts or letters, even in the wee hours. Her major problem is the unconscious fear of losing her personality to others. This usually affects her thought pattern and triggers some kind of expectations which force her into becoming who she is not meant to be—a total opposite of her real “lovable” character. Yet, a time comes in most Aquarius women’s lives when they choose to “grow up” and face a reality that a certain amount of love and care is enough to start a family and raise kids with her husband. Taking care of her husband and kids eventually becomes a priority. Even though this is one of her hardest decisions, she demands respect and understanding from everyone for this ultimate act of love which, to her, is totally rationale and incontestable. Yet, the sad realities of partnership dawns on her when her daily domestic/romantic routines eventually become dull. Again, going back and forth on her steamy libido can be frustrating.

Sex with Aquarius Women

On sexuality, Aquarius women prefer partners who don’t care about taboos of modern society or people’s opinion about sex. They want to express themselves in certain ways which may seem unconventional to others. She wants to experiment more with her man, display intimacy in strange places—and would willingly try outdoor sex if there are no intrusions expected. Extreme activities like parachuting, night clubbing, spicy foods, taking walks in the evening/night or bungee jumping will provide her with memorable thrills.

What she wants from her Man

The ideal Aquarius woman doesn’t love narrow-minded men or any partner who perceives her as “unladylike.” She can be exciting but unpredictable in relationships; this makes her unsuitable for men searching for secure, stable relationships with no dramas or emotional problems. One of her likable traits is the willingness to “do anything” for her man. She hates to be tied down but, interestingly, the Aquarius woman will never ask for anything more than respect from her partner with some surprises when possible—maybe during anniversaries.

On trust, the Aquarius woman can be truthful when she feels secure, loved and respected by her partner. She is trustworthy. However, when her personality is threatened in relationships, she would either tell lies to protect her position or call it quits immediately. Her biggest challenge is finding that inner, emotional peace in relationships and she would be grateful to her partner if he provides the perpetually elusive solution to her personality conflicts.

What every man should know about Aquarius Woman

She knows respect is her given right and will never fight or work towards earning it. She finds it very easy to shut off partners and move on alone with her life, especially if she feels hurt too many times. So, her man must be cautious, romantic and understanding—even when facing her sudden inexplicable mood swings.

Buying gifts for an Aquarius woman shouldn’t be hard if the man understands her desires—something uncommon, romantic and beautiful but not necessarily expensive. She could appreciate a dozen roses or a candlelight dinner but her respect and self-worth come first. Silver and purple are some of her favorite colors.

She loves her Pisces man dearly but arguments/quarrels between them can be funny. They fight and, sometimes, feel hatred burning inside them when they know deep within their hearts that they can’t survive long without each other. She sees him as too dreamy at times and worries that he is not maximizing opportunities to become rich. Their major problem is letting go of little things. Once they’re able to do so, their bond waxes stronger and keeps them in love like never before.