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  • Marriage advice, when they are positive, inspiring and without prejudice, tend to be the best gift everyone, young or old, can get from their parents because a spouse comes into your life to either support or destroy you. Marriage is a contract that should be honored for a life time although there are cogent reasons…

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  • Many times when I talk to couples who are frustrated in their marriage, how their spouse reacts to or helps/hurts them in reaching their goals comes up. I’ve heard couples tell me, “We’re getting divorced because she is holding me back.” One woman told me, “He just isn’t on board with what I want to do with…

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  • It is so sad when I meet a couple that is unhappy. Whether it is stress, finances, kids, in-laws or sin, too many couples simply settle for a mediocre marriage. They carry around this look that says, “I’m not happy, but this is as good as it will get.” I’m sorry, but if I’m going…

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  • Most relational issues come down to communication, which, when it fails leads to arguments and hurt feelings. Do you often ask about how to communicate with your spouse and  how to fight well in marriage? You’re doing the right thing, trying to find solutions before your marriage hits a rock. Truly, it is possible to argue and…

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  • Before diving in, it’s worth addressing the issue that most people never admit having problems until all chances at solutions are lost. Even warring couples like to say from time to time, especially in public: “We never fight.” The truth about those lies is: “You are either lying to me or you are lying to…

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