Love is not selfish, everyone knows that but “selfishness” as a word has different meanings to different people.
Image: Saira Khan and husband.
Loose Women‘s Saira Khan says her husband can freely sleep with other women and she’s happy about it. This isn’t a joke. She’s damn serious with no hard feelings.
Would you call this love, understanding, selflessness or rather, madness?
She’s got a justifiable reason you might find funny.
The TV presenter, Saira Khan says she lost her sex drive.
She was involved in a discussion about sex on Loose Women as one of the panelists. During the arguments, questions and answers, the TV personality openly admitted that she doesn’t have urge for sexual intimacy anymore.
In fact, Saira confessed she no longer has sex with husband Steve Hyde.
They’ve been married for 11 years, a report said.
In her confession, the asexual woman revealed: “I’m 46, I have a busy life and have two kids. I am so lucky.
“We used to have a fantastic sex life. I still love my husband, we cuddle up and it’s lovely. We’ve been together for 11 years, but I’m not interested [in sex]. I don’t want to”
The woman went ahead to add that her husband is free to catch fun with whoever will give him happiness, sexual happiness.
Image shows Loos Women’s Saira Khan and husband during her pregnancy.
In her words: “The other day, I was dressed up to go out and he told me I looked nice and I was like, ‘Thanks!’, and ran out of the door.
“As soon as he comes home, I panic and start saying, ‘I’m so tired!’ I’m embarrassed to say this but I said to him you can go with someone else if you want.
“I want to make him happy. He’ll kill me for saying this… Am I the only one?”
One of the panelists that goes with the name “Agony aunt”, Coleen Nolan reassured Saira Khan that it’s a normal feeling for women at one point in their lives. She comforted her by saying “it was difficult to get in the mood sometimes.”
“You don’t always fancy it and then it takes 20 seconds to get in the mood and sometimes another 20 to do it,” she said.
Image: Saira Khan talks on Loose Women.
Agony aunt Nolan crack a joke that came with a surprising revelation about her wedding night: “I did it three times. I remember it well as it’s the last time we did it.
“Twice at night and first thing in the morning.”
Would you ask your husband to have sex with other women if you find yourself in Khan’s situation?